One moment became a lifetime in me.
It happen unexpected —when the room grows quiet, when a song catches in my throat, when warmth moves through me before I have time to remember.
Grief taught me to expect emptiness.
It did not teach me what to do with love when it returned.
Sometimes it comes as a presence I cannot explain. Something changes in the room—not the light, not the temperature, not even the silence.
The flow changes.
And then I feel you.
Not as you were at the end.
Not tired.
Not fading.
You come back to me whole.
Warm.
Familiar.
Alive in the only way memory can make you alive.
And suddenly I am standing at the kitchen table again, watching you watch me cut a mango.
I remember that morning.
The mango was so yellow it almost looked painted. I held one slice between my fingers and stared at it long enough for you to laugh.
“Are you going to eat it or admire it?”
“Both,” I told you.
You shook your head.
I took my time.
I remember thinking there was something wonderful about wanting a thing and not rushing to have it. The sweetness had already begun before the fruit ever reached my mouth.
You reached across the table and stole a piece from my plate.
I slapped your hand.
You ate it anyway.
And laughed.
That was us.
There was a time when I thought passion had to announce itself.
I thought it had to come roaring through the door, setting everything on fire.
But you taught me another kind.
The kind that sits across from you eating mango from your plate.
The kind that remembers how you take your coffee.
The kind that reaches for your hand without thinking.
The kind that can lie beside you in complete silence and still be saying,
I am here.
One evening, while we were talking about love, you took your finger and drew something on the table.
An eight.
Then you turned it sideways.
∞
I smiled.
“Infinity?”
“You know what it means.”
“No ending.”
You nodded.
Then you said something I never forgot.
“But you still have to feed it.”
I looked at you.
You pointed toward the little flame burning on the candle between us.
“Same as that. You don’t tend it, eventually it goes out.”
At the time I teased you for trying to sound wise.
You laughed and told me to hush.
But I remembered.
I remembered through the years when love stopped being something we merely felt and became something we practiced.
Giving.
Receiving.
Bending toward each other.
Returning.
Beginning again.
We learned not to keep score.
Some days I carried more.
Some days you did.
Some days love looked like passion.
Other days it looked like medicine sitting beside a glass of water.
Sometimes it was laughter from another room.
Sometimes it was an apology.
Sometimes it was knowing when to speak.
Sometimes it was knowing when silence was kinder.
Love grew up with us.
It became grounded.
Seasoned.
Secure enough that neither of us had to ask every morning whether it was still there.
But security never meant the choosing was finished.
Every day was a new day.
And somehow, even after all those years, there were mornings when I would open my eyes and find you already looking at me.
No speech.
No promises.
Just your head resting against the pillow.
Your eyes on mine.
And then that smile.
That quiet little smile.
Sometimes I smiled back without saying a word.
Nothing needed to be said.
Something had passed between us during the night that made what was already ours feel stronger.
Love remained.
Satisfaction remained.
And in the stillness of morning, so did the afterglow.
Those are the moments people never warn you about.
They warn you about grief.
They tell you about emptiness.
They tell you there will be days when something as small as a song can bring you to your knees.
They tell you that you will miss the voice.
The touch.
The laughter.
They tell you many things.
But no one told me what would happen when love itself came back into the room.
No one told me that I could be sitting quietly one day, doing nothing at all, when suddenly the flow would change.
Warmth would settle over me.
And there you would be.
Not in body.
In presence.
I reach for the photograph beside me.
And now I understand.
This is what brought you near.
Your face.
I hold it in both hands.
Beholding your face, my heart spills.
It spills so suddenly that I cannot contain it.
My emotions fill my soul with the love I have for you, and that love pours warmth through my body as though my heart has forgotten, for just a moment, that you are no longer here.
I trace your face with one finger.
Your eyes.
Your mouth.
That smile.
And strangely, the first thing I feel is not sorrow.
It is love.
So much love that grief has to wait its turn.
Because hurt is not the only thing absence leaves behind.
Sometimes it leaves warmth.
Sometimes it leaves a smile that appears before the tears do.
Sometimes it leaves a heart so full that even death cannot convince it that what happened between two people has vanished.
And there, looking at you, I finally understand what you meant all those years ago.
Infinity must be fed.
Perhaps this is how I feed what remains.
Not by pretending you are still here.
Not by refusing the life still waiting for me.
But by allowing myself to remember that once—out of all the people in this enormous world—you and I found each other.
We tended something.
We seasoned it.
We lived inside it.
And it became part of who I am.
I press the photograph against my chest.
The room is quiet again.
But the warmth stays.
And somewhere inside me, that little flame is still burning.
🔥
Not wild.
Not desperate.
Seasoned.
Steady.
Love wanting to be seen.
Love wanting me to remember.
Love whispering the same truth it has whispered all along:
You were loved.
I look at your face one more time.
And smile.
You will forever be with me…
Heart & Pen by Léona
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